tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.comments2023-04-05T08:31:23.051-07:00Sonny EssenceDelesa Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01974719438153781068noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-21035975548902423282012-11-23T23:28:07.087-08:002012-11-23T23:28:07.087-08:00I truly like to reading your post. Thank you so mu...I truly like to reading your post. 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This is GREAT news! I know yo...Congrats, Jasmine! This is GREAT news! I know you're excited, gained more confidence, ready to go forth & conquer! We are PROUD of you. <br /><br />Hugz!<br />Auntie & Uncle :)Shirleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06767104961601810643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-40637723925403627132010-02-01T19:31:22.838-08:002010-02-01T19:31:22.838-08:00I think theres absolutely nothing wrong with inter...I think theres absolutely nothing wrong with interracial relations...but i do agree with the fact that sometimes its YOUR fault that he's not lookin for love in a black sista anymore, sistas aint embracing they men lyk they used to, and i blame it all on THE SYNDROME(I LOVE HOW U PUT IT LIKE THAT) miss independent this and independent that, aint nothing but a set up for failure in my eyes, cuz as soon as things start 2 get bad, tha fuck that n***a, he aint s**t, i can do bad on my own, syndrome starts to rise...from my experiences and what i have saw and heard the main reason they go elsewere is because..well ok black women are strong, history shows this, even some white women will admit to that statement, but they kind of let that statement get a little to them, they feel(and this doesnt apply to everyone just the few things i have seen and heard) that since they have his strength within them they dont allow the black man to be or try to be that dominant figure in the household, so his man hood feels belittled, and he goes elsewere to try and act it out and im ganna say that HISTORY plays a part in all of this to, but this is just a briefing of my opinion, great topic tho jasmine.<br /><br />:RickAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-34301439156914501902009-12-17T11:54:18.583-08:002009-12-17T11:54:18.583-08:00If i may, i'll say ultimately its all about ma...If i may, i'll say ultimately its all about maturity. LOVE is a VERY POWERFUL emotion. If the love is authentic in all aspects, i believe YES, they can remain friends. U can love sumone, simply by wanting the best for them , even if its not u! Plus authentic LOVE is hard to come by, so indulge in it all u can!TruzLifenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-1757324496085826262009-12-17T11:51:08.586-08:002009-12-17T11:51:08.586-08:00Wow I love everyone's honesty and use of perso...Wow I love everyone's honesty and use of personal experiences. I think there is some great advice to be sought out from the readers above. Mutual respect plays a large role in whether the friendship will work or not and just as it was stated above it should be either all or nothing. I know easier said then done, but for the sake of each person's heart and sanity, make your decision wisely. Thank you Erin, Bobbito and Kayshug for reading and commenting :).Delesa Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01974719438153781068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-86049391696121584502009-12-17T11:35:31.041-08:002009-12-17T11:35:31.041-08:00Great Blog Question! Man this is crazy because I h...Great Blog Question! Man this is crazy because I have been in this situation-twice. The actions that I did in the 1st breakup taught me how to deal with the 2nd. With the 1st ex, although we broke up-I still wanted any little piece of him..and began to find myself doing whatever I could to be around him-even engaging in "couple" activity after we were already broken up. This caused me major backlash. I was thinking I was being his friend by allowing him to have pretty much the same privelages as he had when we were in a relationship but without the title. So after major growth from this experience, when I broke up with the 2nd ex, I learned to be his friend- but from a far. There are the occasional phone conversations. The occasional concern texts. Birthday cards and things of that sort. I would even go so far as to say that after a year's worth of break up time, we could now even dine together. However, there is still alot of love there, so knowing that, I would even be cautious of how often I would do that. Bottom line, if you are gonna be a friend, do platonic friend stuff and if the love is still there-keep those activities limited. If you can't adhere to those limits because of the depth of the love, then maybe you should either pursue other avenues to resolve the conflict in the relationship so that you can get back together or cut all ties. In some cases, it needs to be all or nothing.Kayshughttp://www.twitter.com/kayshugnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-79974768342612837622009-12-17T00:29:11.898-08:002009-12-17T00:29:11.898-08:00Ok so this is definitely something that I can spea...Ok so this is definitely something that I can speak on. Can I be friends with an ex? The answer is yes...however, the friendship cannot exist from the time of the original break up. I think when anyone first ends a relationship with another person, there are still a lot of feelings for that person and depending on the depth of the relationship...there is the love factor. How am I going to be friends with you if I am still in love with you? Now, once you and the other person can move on from the relationship and the break up, I believe that friendship can exist but it will not be the same friendship that you have with others. Mutual respect for the other person is the type of friendship that I have with my exes...and that's about it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07481122530733869294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-20261323965900394542009-12-16T16:55:03.020-08:002009-12-16T16:55:03.020-08:00In RL & Deborah's case... NO! ABSOLUTELY N...In RL & Deborah's case... NO! ABSOLUTELY NOT! lol... but like I'm sure like most people might be saying it all depends on the situation and how deep the love is, I think as long as the "L" word plays a part no matter what its gonna be hard as hell to just be friends.cfvfdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14378548390724528356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-80893860591601727252009-12-16T16:25:38.563-08:002009-12-16T16:25:38.563-08:00@Miss Charity I can definitely relate to your repl...@Miss Charity I can definitely relate to your reply on some levels. Although I have not experienced speaking to my ex about current or new relationships, I can say that the friendship is awesome. I commend both you and your ex on taking that step to friendship and breaking the barriers that so many people are afraid of trying. I too believe that the only way for the friendship to work is if the relationship didn't end on a bad note. Thank you for reading and sharing your personal experiences. :)Delesa Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01974719438153781068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-79883998823711621082009-12-16T16:21:37.376-08:002009-12-16T16:21:37.376-08:00@Da'Vida Sonnier I Agree that both parties nee...@Da'Vida Sonnier I Agree that both parties need to mature and ready to transition from a relationship to friendship. Only then can you both be an asset to each other lives through the blossom of a new friendship. Thanks for reading and commenting :).Delesa Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01974719438153781068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-48319653338409178442009-12-16T14:57:26.571-08:002009-12-16T14:57:26.571-08:00I have a relationship with an ex and it works per...I have a relationship with an ex and it works perfectly. we even talk about existing relationships we are involved with. For me, I understand the bigger picture. I want him to reach his personal best and find happiness, surely if that happiness is not found with a romantic relationship between the two of us, then I can handle that. We still have coffee, he has me as a guest for events he host, and I am pleased. He is still reaching his personal best because of what I bring to his life. I think this is only possible because we didnt end on a bad note. <br />miss charityAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04938456308198381689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-77061311579196079292009-12-16T14:44:55.295-08:002009-12-16T14:44:55.295-08:00You can only be friends if both parties are mature...You can only be friends if both parties are mature enough to handle being just friends. It may be too emotional to do so at first, but eventually it should be okay as long it was ended on good terms. Bad terms create unnecessary conflict where no friendship can build from that point.Da'Vida Sonnierhttp://www.twitter.com/queenvidanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-37447904232241009192009-09-19T20:37:37.041-07:002009-09-19T20:37:37.041-07:00@ Bobby Wordplay I agree, no sense in being in a r...@ Bobby Wordplay I agree, no sense in being in a relationship if your continuing to see other people. Just free yourself and the other person.Delesa Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01974719438153781068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8506338227604714420.post-38741105259582507302009-09-18T08:27:30.499-07:002009-09-18T08:27:30.499-07:00I personally wouldn't go far at all... I feel ...I personally wouldn't go far at all... I feel like if someone is goin to cheat, they will find a way to cheat regardless. If I happen to find out then it was meant for me to find out. If she were to give me reasons to think she was cheating I would ask her about it. If it happens more then once then I might try to see what's goin on if I don't break up with her already. I feel like not only should you not cheat on your boy/girlfriend but you should also make sure your not doing anything to make them feel like you might be cheating, just out of respect.Bobby Wordplayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05844168881369332507noreply@blogger.com